with folks who are not direct in their ways. honest with their word. and are rather adventitious with their intentions and motives.
u do not owe it to others to get along. i think when such discrepancies happen it’s best to clarify and to ensure so as to prevent any future predatory behaviours from higher places where big decisions are made
since this tends to scale off the balance betwen such stark differences of power positions. usually when smth goes wrong. we must learn to look at those who have power over great distances. and ask ourselves do we really need to rely on one person for such a big task
since when a big mistake is made. it’s harder for one individual to admit to their mistake and a lot easier to blame others for their incompetence. and greed (and if u notice. since twitter and how we change the way we speak. most leaders or those other power are trying to get on our level for the dawn degree of understanding and compassion but without having done anything of real substance or telling stories in chunks whatever serves them best bc they want to be relatable but don’t wish to do the hard work of such relativity aspect when u also dip into ur privilege and are all good and well and maybe it’s ur strategist to use people for ur selfish gain that causes that apprehension to trust )
i suspect that this is result of seeing general people as ignorant masses or people who can not fend for themselves or defend themselves in good faith and good conscience. but we mistake general peoples errors to something inherent or stationary whereas what we need to do is look to those systems that cause such negative side effects. ( bc even those who take on such tasks and get onthe system need to be protected as in they have at any time in office to abuse their power for their selfish gain and paint. it as smth objective or smth that needs to happen where’s they also use the same place of allowance to abuse regular people they have beef with. people need protection fro leaders potential of abuse of systems that are designed to serve all equally).
tho when ur dealing with large number of people. and given that status is of strong concern here. like as a leader u don’t want ur incompetence to show so strongly that that’s how u will be remembered and go down in history books as ur incompetences rather than ur accomplishments.
which forces folks to lie about their accomplishments and conceal their error of judgement. it’s a lot easier to deny and find smth else to mitigate a issue which could be solved by simply doing the right thing since the right thing seems too scary for some who. may assume or think that people are just like them in the sense that they would also be advantageous should he be clear and honest about his mistakes. ( so the wrong application of the greater good theory applies in the personal incompetence of those who use the objective system for their selfish gain or personal benefit and lie about it in public discourse only enough that they don’t attach their name and face on things they say. so that they aren’t held despicable come future time when things change )
so not only that there’s great error in judgement that what is perceived from the people as stationary whereas the actions are rather side effects to flaws found in systems and it’s contradictory ways prevent timely resolve among its members. but the leaders also mistake their struggles as stationary or characteristics of their job descriptions of tasks they take on as well. (so intentional incompetence of some leaders whose privilege does not recognize what their actions convey to world at large may cause some other leaders to benefit fro those strategies and wage wars ) ( because they tend to learn from each other if they r not changing notes behind closed doors )
in a way. u may not know what to do next and then look around to what others have done who came before u and then assume that’s the only way which sort of explains to us why certain things are on constant repeat
it’s due to a persons inability to do the next tough thing which expects from them honesty and trust and bc they would either do smth familiar or safe. they choose to repeat the same mistakes of those who came before them. ( that’s why we see many places where common people pay the piece of someone’s inability to handle large numbers and complex matters. and when they end up oversimplifying there matters without peoples own input. they become dogmatic and destructive in their ways where they do not get respect in return. which makes them angry and punish the people via subtle systemic changes that hurt them)
and i think the issue here is based on this aspect. it’s not that we don’t have enough information about history per se. in fact there’s over abundance of info and in some it’s biased and in others contradictory. missing in parts as well as too technical in aspect so we end up focusing on all these arbitrary details that take us nowhere nor do they incite or transpire inspiration for new ideas or solutions to our common problems. ( and everyone gives up when they r extremely frustrated. even if for a short moment . tho when this happens at a big arena of decisions. this negatively impacts the people that dependent on ur alliances and services that u were selected to do diligently that’s aside from ur personal or subjective feelings. and when they catch themselves in hindsight. they will spend months of bullshit to further waste peoples life and time and energy just to cover their own ass )
there’s also that. when an individual or groups of individuals or a entire country looks to history too much. where they don’t in occasionally touch down in reality or ensure the quality of now in all they do. ( which we see now where countries put too much money on fear and not enough on current issues where their peoples suffer consequences of their leaders inability to prioritize what is essential and or be able to do multiple important tasks simultaneously or ask for help when they need it bc systems also have us illusion that ur in a ivory tower and iron fist and all that but u lack coordination. for altruism on the right appeal for the benefit of all people )
they have then no time or energy to look ahead to see the trajectory in which they are headed by which they do when they are not completely present and just. and calm. bc they also get lost in all the emotions that may arise in company of such feelings. as well as the natural reactive byproduct of ones personal experience with the world which is works on the line of ones subjective reality which can also contribute to ones perception and colour ones world as well as allow one to shape ones reality that one tend to understand and thus draw wisdom or make conclusions or come up with a plan. ( that’s why u will end up getting scapegoats for systematic malfunctions as opposed to transparency of why and how as well as common grounds for all afflicted as a fault of such for solutions brain storming common objectively)
this results in a blind society. gaslit you such a extend that they actually begin to beg for biased information just to nurse themseves to some type of inner calm or illusion of safety. so in a way we become addicted to constancy of a particular type of information flow just to assure us on our way when we do not know or fully feel confidence in the way we live bc we are focusing on one aspect too much over the quality of our lives in general or be calm and inspired as well as diligent enough to come up with solutions. bc we are too entrenched in the descriptions of problems too much and then bc we get exhausted. we end up blaming people for our inability to do our part. ( this is where many chose to do wrong to get right or right results or they mitigate a wrong with slither wrong and say they either didn’t have control over their choice or assume this is they standard or way to be )
let’s say that someone does everything except that one thing where they directly contact people they have issues with. and this has been normalized in a world of such contractions where double speak and conniving attitude and general sense of distrust has long been established. given enough competition bc of appearance of lack of resources and materializing an honest desirable life for urself. it’s no wonder folks get in relationships with mentality to get what i can rather than is this what i truly want. answer.
and when most of our dealings start on this notions. bc we wish to protect ourselves and identity. we either resort to lying or hurting or harming others while trying to make ourselves look competent. but when we refuse to utilize our privilege and power to contact someone whose words we have selectively listened and chose according to our hidden order or personal outcome. ( or in today’s quality of relationships in some instances where necessary steps aren’t in accord to consider knowing others but assume some type of justice over them and their person and destiny ) how then can we say our word towards someone is worthy to listen?
now i see that a lot of issues can be solved if folks simply get real. but this hardly happens. personally i’ve been speaking on this for years. and still to this day. folks are doing everything but and expect a different outcome. which leads to predetory behaviours playing at large bc there’s that comfortable grey zone where u can say or do or make seem whatever because u wish to abuse ur power for ur benefit in alignment with that lack mentality instead of fixing the errors in the systemic way which would otherise grant the changes that ur actually seeking. ( many of today’s mind games between such leaders and high status people and regular folks started with my dealing with celebrities through twitter and mind related relationships where folks don’t know u but have power to talk about u or take ur stuff freely and use it for their enrichment and then in turn still antagonize u enough that u no longer can safely function in societies bc information bias and general lack of funds coupled by competition between regular folks like u may temporarily give people to choose those biases for their self survival and apples towards authority to be the next smth)
so most folks who mistske this seeking as one where they need scapegoats to make excuses for their misbehaviour or lack of competence within their professional field should be noted. so that we don’t mistake the transgression of people who are under their direct fire of such abulations for anger issues or characteristic flaw since if ur agsisnt the wall for too little g and are constantly squeezed into a corner the natural biologist of that is almost always in direct alignment with ones survival instinct so if u push someone enough times they will finally break down and want to get loud bc they dont feel safe in ur company. and under current conditions especially in western society cos in the east or anywhere else the kinds are open in broad daylight but in weary they are more psychological so we don’t see those emotional scars bc the conniving attitudes here use satellites and any other technology for mind control but with democracy in mind. and do create like that. which is also dishonest. and strengthens the abuse on the other parts of the world we see today. thank u
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