we can’t change people

but we can change things. things such as systems, circumstances, material things, right conditions, are all part of control of ones who are able to wield their own directives to make things happen

surely ones would also have to do their own personal inner work for the realm of truth that there be no obstructions from their purview so as to articulate issues as they are as they arise as opposed to the common misconception about the illusion of permanence of how we tend to mistake the finitude of our lives as all there is from an absolute place.

then there is our inner conditionings that can also be utilized as filters through which we can make sense of our reality as it continues to unfold. tho the reality is non linear even if it may seem due to the passage of time there are a lot of twists and turns within it much like a very complex system where everything is interconnected.

so even if we were to want to find a person or a thing to blame everything to, we find it difficult to maintain and it gets us stuck in a mental place where we don’t get respite irregardless to all the profound answers we may discover there in. since it self is part of everything else and everything depends on everything else for their multi function as well as the reaching of their full potential.

usually i hear things like everything has potential both in upwards and downwards occurrence. meaning that things have potential to get better or worse. i don’t know. i think. that things aren’t as black and white as that. bc if they were we wouldn’t be in repetition of the similar if not same conundrum. much like a limbo which should give us a clue as to why the true teachings of such overcoming of hardship can be due to their connection and attachment to causes and effects that are as they are aside from as we wish them to be. not to mention the unspoken words of ur not good enough to do the work ur undertaking and thereby recreate the more of the same or finding urself stuck in a rut bc ur not able to do the tasks that maybe much easier for others.

that latter part is almost always attribute to when things are going well and all ur needs are met then the issues that may have contributed to ur troubles no longer matter as opposed to if on top of ur past issues u find urself not much changing and no matter how much u change about urself u realize that it’s the systems that fault to operate effectively in line with human condition as opposed to be predatory of double intended that if ur of this use or that only then u have some advantage and we can just simply say that u have within u what makes a. holy person who is able to self sufficiate solutions to personal problems as opposed to say someone who never had a chance. ( i will give one clue from dalai lamas book that he says if u r good and u wish to be reborn. be reborn in a rich setting so that u can continue to practice ur spirituality. which gives us clue that economics- and mind u he also mentioned quality of heath and body pain that can cause disturbances within ones field of experience and spiritual progress n when system don’t reflect quality of ones well being and personal recovery u know where needs work- play a huge part in our self development and self sufficiency as well as overcoming hardship tho if we see the current issues. where everything has become extremely extreme on both sides and systems refuse to confront issues yet keep going the direct opposite whenever they are asked. u will see misery equal in all places. yet may not recognize it as such bc the common distaste about existence and towards our lives may manifest differently for each of us. due to the art of non linearity and the art of inter connectivity among us and all and everything which also includes the individuals reality and the invincible factors within it ) ( so the spiritual practice when done right by everyone if not most people in all parts of the world. we not only make things easy for us but become the embodiment of what we wish to see in the world so we also live as an example not just speak on such ) ( which require perseverance and tolerance bc if u do with expectation of change right away. since it’s easy to tell others forgive already so we all move into the good parts about our lives ur holding us back or ur casing too much trouble. i’ll give another example. from the movie beach when that guy gets severely impacted due to shark attack and he’s crying all day and crying all night. well. it disturbs the morale in the beach no? but then u may look at things in a systemic way or scientific way and maybe be aware of ur feelings as they arise but also consider the simplistic break down as opposed to being distracted by either too much emotion or too much practical step by steps of how u may get out of such. is not enough unless we also remember to be the alchemists of our own hearts and souls and have the right combination for proper balance. or equanimity. but again this may need to also be reflected in all parts about our world system which still as i believe and see everyday. runs on greed and fear ) ( another illusion is that u have arrived. we never truly arrive. we may realize stuff build baseline for truth and personal manifestation but our continuity of our lives and changes within it am give us clue that we continue to grow change and shift and we have the power to choose to grow together and constructively and on mutual grounds as opposed to believe too excessively that we can also change for worse all on our own. especially that last part. is not to blame others but to be more familiar with systems so that we can redirect focus from our issues to global one and become awakened within our inner warriors for change or our inner which ever is ur dharma. u get to choose that too and then pursue more of that in the world in peaceful way)

our societies tend to miss the systemic part of issues. which kind of gives us a clue as to which part of human condition we wish to leave to nature and which part we wish to undertake. tho without fully understanding the true nature of humanity. or what makes us human it’s hard to expect our true wisdom and personal findings to communicate with others of the same so as to augment the system in favour of our dark human past. so when we see this from this perspective. it’s harder to remain angry towards one person since one looks back in a linear way and finds the key area where we may have gotten a different result if we chosen smth else versus when we see that even those people or circumstance depended on other things around them. and when u seek those out. u see the cumulative smth of that timeline consciousness of which was not like where we are today. and then ur like well i can’t take this mindset. go back and criticize others or myself even bc what we have now was not available then. not to mention that most often than not. unless ur dead. what happens in the after math of smth is more impactful than the event itself.

and that reflects to systems as well. if for instance we see most humans as unworthy of the same bounties chances and the luck some of us have then we would probably definitely reflect that into our actions. or our decision will be covered and self serving bc we may feel superior to them. whereas our awakening or what we think is right may come from a strictly privileged way since not everyone has the same experience nor articulate the same thing in the same way. ( that’s where we need to work together and not take on matters bc they may give us feeling of domination and control which can lead to burnout as well as disappointing end results versus eliminating unrealistic hierarchies and allow others on the cumulative problem solving table concerning all ) and we can’t simply say well ur doing it wrong or well ur thinking too much or ur too negative or ur turning into a monster or what ever it’s just the byproduct of the faulty systems that don’t self reflect or take it upon themselves as part of the cumulative human relationships that’s complex between human development and the man made systemic development since they not only complement one another but they rely on each other and feed back and forth like all the time which is how u see the developments that happen simultaneously and agaisnt popular belief that’ some wish to push forth a linear one sided narrative of their relationships and function as mentioned before. has a lot of ebbs and flows and twists and turns but is nonetheless connected in all levels and ways so if we change one part of it it eventually impacts elsewhere so then we must become comfortable with taking ownership of our part within it. no matter where u are

whether if ur the receiver of services or one who operated such. since both benefits. those who operate benefit from the systems too and those who receive services at the very least communicate with their results and efforts of the effect ability of the allowances of those systems that predicate guarantee or supplement some type of recovery or function or purpose. depending on the context of the given matter. ( and both function not just for their benefit. but those that sacrificed and came before them so we are all where we are as we are and those that will be next ownership and inhabitants of the systems n the world we will someday leave behind )

so how do u take ownership. then if ur the one who benefits from the system then u give honest clear critical feedback. not partial bc u have fear or biased bc it may serve u if u give it what it wants to hear versus what it need to hear. bc all this although may not produce immediate results. do end up showing up later either i this lifetime or next either with us or among others so the responsibility must consider long term objectives and not short term goals or very limited narrow passageways u may think u and ur lineage will be safe where u manipulate everything around ur hidden goal or agenda.

and if ur functioning the system or operating it. take ownership of ur part within it. it could be personal part where u might have functioned a particular system in a wrong way or based on by ur past acknowledgment of something that may not be available then but is available now to ur intellect. which is harder to do bc if u caused damages then u might have to pay reparations for such. see the most suffering happens bc smth is taken from us and is not replaced and that includes systemically. u hear words like world does not owe us anything but it’s not like we consciously chose to be here. if we did there’s this great gap or amnesia between separate lifetimes and the passage through which we are born. if we remember that. still. there’s too many cause and effects greater than us who cause us much indoctrination however willed they are or consciously created for specific appeal or by the misuse of some of the great wisdom that not many of us are granted entry to or given access so as to examine these on our own as part of our cumulative use of our right to think for ourselves bc that part especially is missing. we are treated like babies. then reprimanded for not knowing our way among the many complex systems that run obscure over our lives.

i mean do we need to antagonize and punish people forever and put them in societal systems on task and jobs that’s not even necessary in the first place. it reflects to our overall quality of prioritizing what’s good for us as human species in the first place. let us start there too among all the internal work that also is essential.